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Case Study : When husband avoids talking to his wife

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Case study: Marriage is bliss that’s what others think but when you come home & are scared what if I speak & she will blast her volume on the high pitch & When wife’s voice sounds like sharp needles in ears, It’s time you have to see a counselor. You think her voice is irritating you, but she thinks you are not listening. Get help.

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Case Study : Husband comes homes drunk or just drinks & sleep when comes home

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Case study: If marriage is not in harmony then you try to avoid each other. To keep yourself busy or insane one spouse keeps busying his/her mind by drinking.

Husband comes homes drunk or just drinks & sleep when comes home then it’s a sign he is missing the quality time she deserves, or he is just busy in his addiction or maybe just trying to overcome his stress. You need to talk it over in marriage counseling.

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Case Study : Wife doesn’t want mother in law to visit

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Case study: Can you leave your mother alone? No, but what if your wife doesn’t want your mother to visit her at your house because sometimes in her last visit both had created a scenario where you also felt this would lead to separation but who is separating from who & for what? You have kids, will you not want to visit when your kids get married & live separately? That’s what your mother might be going through.

All said & done but what about the wife. She is trying to make the house or build a home of her own & now she doesn’t want someone to order why this should be done a certain way. Wife is just trying to make a space for identity & creating her own house.

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Case Study : Wife is tired and sick but still making food for the husband

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Case Study: You have the wife who is educated & working. What if the wife is tired and sick but still making food for the husband so he should get home cooked food what do you give her in return? A face when you are back that she should be glad you are home after working hard in office? How about her is she feeling ok? How was her day? She spent the entire day thinking about how she makes your home better or after work came home still working in the kitchen to give food on the table with a smile. Are her needs met?

It’s not the food we have to cook she just had to supervise… (look at reality)…. you are at a stage you need to meet iNtegra counseling.

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Case Study : Husband feels like extra baggage but need to carry him

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Working hard to create an identity for yourself but being married is hard for some people it’s tough.

Husband feels like extra baggage but needs to carry him because after doing all the struggle to please him you are not getting basic needs met & have to struggle yell in the day to day life. Feeling all alone battling for the house?

So So marriage shouldn’t be the case in your wedding because you can transform your marriage into a happy marriage. Somewhere emotional disconnect due to pain or hurtful statements made by spouse feel like a piece of baggage.

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Case Study : Husband comes home and takes over TV or social life marriage counselor in Delhi

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Case Study: Feel like what if I had a separate house where I could hide?

Husband comes home and takes over TV or social life. You can’t be on Facebook or WhatsApp because he said so or you decided when he is at home you want to give him the entire time, but what if he comes home & sit in front of the TV to watch his news or shows which you don’t like. What about your own breathing space.

Time management is required so the couple can spend quality time together. Facebook or TV is an essential part of some people but managing them is a task you will need to learn.

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Case study : Wife is addicted to serials which are brainwashing her how to play games in relationships

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This week’s particular case: Husband called for counseling & said his Wife is addicted to serials which are brainwashing her how to play games in relationships.

Wife is addicted to Tv soaps & picking up only negative roles from serials, & what to do with his mother.

Sounds good may be picked up some cultural sings, somewhat husband was frustrated with why his wife is calling his mum saas sass saasji etc. Husband felt bad instead of calling his mother as mom mum maaji mataji she is calling saas. It doesn’t end there she starts explaining why the maid kept by his wife is hated by sass.

His wife who works in MNC hired maid leaves home at 8 am and comes back at 9 pm.

How her maid works or behaves with his mother is not the responsibility of his wife. Wife screamed: Your mom doesn’t like what I do. She is acting like in that serial **** like sasu maa ****.

Husband realized so far: TV is only entertainment for her wife (watches when she can). There are so many other challenges needs to be discussed between his mother & his wife where he needs to be open receptive without being judgmental.

 

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Case Study : Husband lied about his education and job before marriage

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Case Study: Wife says Husband lied about his education and job before marriage when they were dating.
Husband says he only lied about attending the classes while he was enrolled in BE but didn’t give the last exams so he couldn’t finish his engineering degree. But he was joined in the college when his wife & he was dating. But after that, he decided not to continue with his education because he was more interested in Filmmaking or arts.
They got married too early at a young age because parents thought it’s good for them to be married at a young age.
Today after three years of marriage husband has been able to complete his BE as he was pushed/motivated by the wife to finish his degree. Now wife feels she has been betrayed in the marriage & doesn’t want to continue in the marriage.

Till now: It’s revealed that it was not only because he lied about his education but the real reason the wife wanted him to seek counseling & get motivated in his business even after finishing his B.E. husband was still working the family business where he has no motivation. He doesn’t like to be in that industry or work instead of using his creative skills to make homes or society. Now he is working towards his career goals & wife is working towards her business which is also related work. So far both have a happy future ahead.

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Case study : infidelity recovery – husband keeping two families

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Case Study: Marriage counselor explains to the wife who just found out her husband had been keeping a second wife in Chandigarh. Besides, the wife who he legally married he had three children from the first wife. For 21 years he had been up & down Mumbai – Chandigarh – Delhi for his business work. Delhi was used by him only for being alone away from everything. Husband had a luxury apartment to relax in Delhi to be by himself. In Mumbai, he had a wife whom he didn’t legally married but married her by their ritual privately.

He had been keeping everyone happy by being the right provider & being with the family he is in the city. Husband had his mind set on keeping his little secret to himself but one day his son just landed in his Delhi apartment where he found pictures of his first family etc. it was devastating at first for all. But due to his two daughters just married to influential families, all families decided to keep it a secret & overcome the betrayal part. Husband had his reasons to have a second family because the first wife was very argumentative & they had stopped talking to each other. He had left home for good for Mumbai but met this second wife who found his support to overcome a divorce she had filed with her husband before the divorce. She supported him to stand his business in Mumbai with her money & skills so well that he grew in business as a successful entrepreneur & today all live a lavish lifestyle including all kids from the same business which was initiated by the second wife but taken to new heights by Husband. As per husband he never wanted to hurt the emotions of the first wife, so he had left them abandoned them but kept sending money without keeping in touch with them for nine years. But during nine years he had three children from the second wife in Mumbai to whom he finds as moral support and a reason to live & do something in life.

The reason he came for counseling because he had plans to leave everything & join a monastery to a spiritual path with a guru (as per his statement), but somewhere his family saw that there is something they should do to help him to live his real life with whom he wants to live. Any of the family didn’t have him as they wanted him to be with them & they always felt missing something but loved him for he is for whatever he is for whatever moments he is with them.

Points to note : everyone loves husband, He actually cared financially, emotionally, physically for everyone in his ex or present wife. His both families & both wives love him immensely. Both wives want him to be happy with another wife because he has given enough love to what they ever wanted from a man in their life.

 

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Case Study : Wife told husband to sleep in other room counselling for marriage in to bring him back

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Case Study: why wife had to tell her husband to sleep in other room until he is what she desires to be him. Wife opted counseling for marriage by iNtegra to bring him back in her life after she told him to get out of her room but not of her life.

Two things to notice here :

She doesn’t want him to be out of her life.
She wants peace.
She wants him to know what is essential for her.
She wants him to know she is in control of her life.
Wife needs space.
Wife needs individual counseling from someone who not biased to let her know she is right as per whatever.
Wife needs to know if her husband loves her today.
Wife is insecure about her security as a person with values.

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